How to remove lash extensions at home: myths, facts & why you should think twice
If you’ve ever thought about removing lash extensions at home with oils, steam, or random kitchen products, you’re not alone. Many clients have tried these methods because they’ve heard it’ll “break down the glue”. Even some technicians suggest using oils to remove extensions.
Unfortunately, this couldn’t be more wrong, and in this post, we’re breaking down why at-home lash removal methods are risky, ineffective, and can damage your natural lashes. We'll also walk you through how lash glue works and what should actually be used to safely remove lash extensions.
And if you’d like to see what a truly luxurious lash experience looks like when removal and application are handled by a pro, this guide breaks it down.
Why people use oil for lash removal?
The idea that oil will break down lash glue comes from misinformation. The logic goes like this: if oil can break down makeup or waterproof mascara, it must work for eyelash extensions too, right? Wrong.
Let’s talk about lash adhesive for a second.
Lash adhesives are made with cyanoacrylate, the same main ingredient in super glue (yes, literal super glue). Cyanoacrylate isn’t affected by oil or steam. Instead, it’s a chemical compound that can only be properly dissolved by a professional-grade lash remover. If your extensions were applied correctly, no amount of oil will magically melt that glue off.
If the extensions were poorly applied (bad preparation or not removing natural oils), they may eventually fall off naturally. But rubbing aggressively with oil will only put unnecessary stress on your natural lashes, potentially pulling them out. Yikes.
So, how should lash extensions be removed?
The only safe way to remove lash extensions is with professional lash remover—either a cream remover or gel remover. These products break down cyanoacrylate glue through a chemical reaction, gently dissolving the bond between the extension and your natural lash.
Cream remover – best for beginners and full removal
- Ideal for: Full removal or beginners who want more control
- Consistency: Thick and creamy, making it easier to apply without getting into the eyes
- Waiting time: 5–10 minutes for the glue to dissolve
- Caution: Can leave behind white residue that needs to be cleaned thoroughly
Cream removers, like our professional cream remover, are slower but safer, making them the top choice for lash technicians who are less experienced or removing a full set.
Gel remover – for spot removal and experienced techs
- Ideal for: Spot removal (when one stubborn lash won’t come off) or full removal by experienced technicians
- Consistency: Thinner and more slippery, which makes it faster to work with but riskier near the eyes
- Waiting time: 1–2 minutes for glue to dissolve
- Caution: Can easily get into the eye, so extreme caution is necessary
Gel removers work faster and are better for targeted fixes, but only when handled by trained lash artists. They dissolve the glue faster but require careful application to avoid irritation.
Safe, pain-free removals are a huge part of long-term client retention.
Why you should avoid DIY lash removal
When you try to remove lash extensions at home, you’re gambling with the health of your natural lashes. Pulling at them, rubbing with oil, or attempting to scrape off the extensions can cause damage to the natural lashes, leave gaps in your lash line or even temporary or even long term lash thinning.
No lash look is worth permanent damage. When it’s time to remove your set, it’s best to visit a trained lash technician who has the right tools and expertise to do it safely.
The bottom line
Cyanoacrylate-based lash glue is strong. Because it has to be. The only way to dissolve it is with a proper lash remover, not oils, steam, or random home remedies.
If you’re a client: reach out to a qualified lash artist when you need removal.
And if you’re a lash tech, make sure you’re choosing the right remover for the job—cream for full sets and control, gel for quick precision and stubborn lashes.
Your lashes deserve to be treated with love. Let’s keep them healthy, happy, and always on point!
About the author:
Written by a multi-award-winning lash artist, international competition judge, and trusted educator at The Lash Box Shop, with years of hands-on experience helping professional lash artists improve their eyelash extension technique, speed, and confidence behind the tweezers. Passionate about elevating standards in the lash industry, she now shares expert insights to help lash technicians grow stronger, more profitable businesses.